help me. So me and this guy were getting to be bestfriends talking like everyday but because of my pathological lying problem, i blurted out some whole story that wasnt true one bit and i scared him cause apparently, "my bestie he doesnt know bout LOVES him". yes ik im a bad person no need to tell. But right after i said that, i kept building on the story cause i coudnt back out and then he got rlly worried and so he raged and cussed me and my imaginary friend out. but later on, he added me back and apologised and so did i for getting angry on him being angry at me. ever since, we haven't talked and now im just scared cause i ruined everything and i feel like s***. Please help
btw i am getting therapy and learning coping strategies for my problem but now i cant back out this lie cause i said a lotta things that would take me days to write. Please help me i dont want to loose him
actions have consequences.
So stop lying.
You may lose him; that's no longer up to you.
If so, move on, having learned your lesson.
almost everyone goes through heartbreak at some point. welcome to being human.