Dialogue
Your parent , who works in another town, wants to resign from his/her work in order to spend more time with you and your siblings. You want to speak to your parent because you believe that resigning would be mistake.
Write the dialogue between you and your parent
Child: Mom/Dad, can we talk about something important?
Parent: Of course, what's on your mind, sweetheart?
Child: Well, I overheard you talking about resigning from your job so you can spend more time with us. I understand where you're coming from, but I honestly believe that would be a mistake.
Parent: Oh, really? Why do you feel that way?
Child: Well, first of all, I want you to know that we appreciate your intentions and the fact that you want to spend more time with us. But, if you resign, it might cause financial strain on the family. We wouldn't want you to stress about money or struggle to provide for us.
Parent: I understand your concern, but I've been really thinking about this decision. I feel like I'm missing out on so much of your lives because of the long hours and commuting. I want to be there for you during the most important moments.
Child: I get that, Mom/Dad. And there's no denying that our family time would increase if you're not working. But I believe we can find a balance without sacrificing your job entirely. Maybe we could have designated family days or set aside specific time for bonding activities. Resigning could have long-term consequences for our financial stability, and I want you to be aware of that.
Parent: You make a valid point, my dear. Maybe there's a middle ground we can find. But I've been feeling overwhelmed lately and I really crave more quality time with all of you.
Child: I completely understand, but I think it's worth exploring other alternatives before making such a big decision. Maybe you could have a conversation with your employer about a more flexible work schedule or exploring the possibility of working remotely a few days a week. That way, you can still be there for us without giving up your job completely.
Parent: I hadn't considered that. You're right; I should explore other options first. It may not have to be an all-or-nothing situation. Thank you for bringing this up and giving me some perspective, sweetheart.
Child: You're welcome, Mom/Dad. I just want what's best for our family, and I believe finding a balance that works for everyone is the key. Let's work together to figure out a solution that allows you to be with us more while ensuring our financial stability.
Parent: Agreed. I'm glad we had this conversation. Let's discuss this more as a family and come up with a plan that suits everyone's needs.