help me write a paragraph telling my boyfriend how boring it is been a spare wheel in his relationship while you don’t know..

I want to talk to you about something that has been weighing on my heart. Lately, I have been feeling like a spare wheel in our relationship, like I am just there as a placeholder while you are focused on other things. It hurts to feel like I am not a priority to you and that my presence is not truly valued. I want to feel like I am an important part of your life, not just someone who is along for the ride. I hope we can have an open and honest conversation about how we can work together to make our relationship feel more fulfilling for both of us.