When Lee surendered at Appomattoxboth him and General Grant wanted to )

end the fighting and begin the process of reconciliation and reunification of the country. Both men agreed to have the Confederate soldiers return home with their horses and possessions, and Grant also provided food rations for Lee's starving troops. Grant also allowed Lee to keep his sword as a symbolic gesture of respect. Overall, both men displayed a sense of mutual respect and desire for peace.