After reading these sentences the reader can most likely conclude that the narrator

plans to tell her mother about her experience at the bath.
plans to tell her mother about her experience at the bath.

recognizes and respects her grandmother's social position.
recognizes and respects her grandmother's social position.

understands why her mother and her grandmother frequently argue.
understands why her mother and her grandmother frequently argue.

wishes she was receiving the gifts her grandmother was giving to others.

wishes she was receiving the gifts her grandmother was giving to others.