It’s a burden, I think as I run around the school track. Having a name like Hypatia is a pain. Absolutely no one knows how to pronounce it for one thing. “It’s high-pay-sha,” I say at least three times a day. My mother, who is a math professor and a supporter of women’s rights, thinks it is a wonderful name.
She is fond of telling me stories about the original Hypatia. This original was born around 370 CE in Egypt and she was beautiful, clever, and tough. According to Mom, she was the best woman who ever lived.
“She was amazing at math at a time when women were hardly taught anything!” she gushes at me whenever I ask why. I have no problem with the fact that the first Hypatia was beautiful and strong. I might not swim every day, or row, or ride horses as my irritating namesake apparently did, but I do run. I run every day when I have the time. It clears my head. I come up with my best ideas when I run.
No, my real problem with my name is my dislike of math. The feeling is mutual—math hates me too. We are not a good fit. Imagine being named after a famous musician when you are tone deaf, or a famous poet when you only want to build things. This is what I feel like every day.
I understand the frustration of having a name that doesn't align with your interests or strengths. It can create a sense of pressure or expectation that you may not resonate with. However, it's important to remember that a name is just a label, and it doesn't define who you are or what you are capable of.
While the original Hypatia may have been known for her mathematical prowess, it doesn't mean that you have to follow in her footsteps. Your mother may admire the original Hypatia for her achievements, but your own path and passions are unique to you. It's okay to have different interests and strengths.
Instead of letting your name be a burden, embrace it as part of your unique identity. Hypatia may be a symbol of strength and intelligence, even if in a different domain than math. Find your own passions and pursuits, and let your name become a reminder of your individuality.
Remember that you have the power to define yourself and shape your own identity, regardless of the expectations or associations that come with your name. Focus on what makes you happy, engage in activities that you love, and don't let a name hold you back from pursuing your dreams.