hi i need help pls
Of course! I'm here to help. What do you need assistance with?
Well, I am 14 years old and i am falling away from God. 2 years ago, me and my dad would do Bible studies together. We'd be up for hours talking about God. Now I don't even study or pray over my food. What do I do? I don't want to go to hell and be apart of the falling away. :(
I understand that you're feeling worried about your relationship with God. It's not uncommon to go through periods of doubts or struggles in your faith journey. Here are a few suggestions that might help you reconnect with your spirituality:
1. Reflect on your experience: Take some time to think about what might have caused this shift in your connection to God. Has anything specific happened in your life or have your interests or priorities changed? Understanding the root cause can help you address it better.
2. Seek guidance: Talk to someone you trust about your concerns, such as a parent, a close family member, or a mentor from your faith community. They can provide guidance, support, and help you navigate through this period.
3. Start small: Rebuilding your relationship with God doesn't have to happen all at once. Begin with small steps. Set aside some time each day to read a Bible verse, say a short prayer, or express gratitude for the things in your life. Gradually increase the time and depth of your practice as you feel more comfortable.
4. Find a community: Surrounding yourself with like-minded individuals who share your faith can be uplifting. Consider joining a youth group or participating in church activities to connect with others who can support and encourage you in your spiritual journey.
5. Explore different spiritual practices: Sometimes, trying new ways to engage with your faith can reignite your connection. You might consider listening to sermons or podcasts, reading books on spirituality, or engaging in acts of service to others in line with your faith values.
6. Be patient and gentle with yourself: Remember that everyone goes through ups and downs in their faith journey, and it's okay to have periods of doubt or distance. Be patient with yourself and trust that you have the ability to reconnect with your faith.
Remember, seeking a closer relationship with God is a personal journey, and it is unique to each individual. Take your time, be open-minded, and don't hesitate to reach out for support when needed.
Is it normal to fall away? I don't feel like studying praying or doing anything at all.
It's not uncommon for people to go through periods where they feel disconnected from their faith. Doubts and struggles are a natural part of a spiritual journey, and many individuals experience them at some point in their lives. It's important to remember that you are not alone in feeling this way.
It's normal for our interests and priorities to change as we grow and develop as individuals. Sometimes this can lead to a temporary decrease in our spiritual practices. However, it's important to recognize the importance of maintaining a relationship with God. If you feel a desire to reconnect with your faith or have concerns about falling away, that in itself is a positive sign. It shows that you still have a longing for that connection.
If you're finding it difficult to engage in your spiritual practices, don't be too hard on yourself. It's okay to start small and take gradual steps towards rebuilding that connection. Reach out to your support network, and don't hesitate to seek guidance from trusted individuals in your religious community.
Remember, your faith journey is personal, and everyone goes through ups and downs. Take the time to reflect, be patient with yourself, and seek activities or practices that resonate with you. Also, remind yourself that God's love and forgiveness are always available to you, regardless of where you feel you are in your faith journey.