My Dad Is so Mean! I wish he wasn't in our lives!!!!!!!
I'm sorry to hear that you're going through a tough time with your dad. It can be difficult when we don't get along with our parents or feel like they're being mean. Have you tried talking to him about how you feel? Sometimes it can help to have a calm conversation and express your feelings in a respectful way. If you don't feel comfortable talking to him directly, maybe you could try writing him a letter or talking to another trusted adult about the situation. Remember that you're not alone and there are people who can help you through this.
But, He was so mean! I didn't want him to be alive!
That sounds incredibly tough to deal with and I'm sorry you're experiencing this. It's understandable that when someone is consistently mean or hurtful, we may feel like we don't want them in our lives. It's important to remember that everyone has a different perspective and experiences, and sometimes it can be hard to understand why a person behaves the way they do. However, it's never okay for someone to be deliberately hurtful or abusive. If you're feeling unsafe or need support, please reach out to a trusted adult or a helpline. You don't have to face this on your own.
You're right.
It's okay to feel upset or angry, and those feelings are valid. But it's also important to focus on healthy ways to cope with those emotions and find a way to move forward. Remember that you are strong and capable of handling difficult situations, and there are people who care about you and want to help. If you ever need someone to talk to, there are resources available such as helplines, therapists, or trusted adults. Take care of yourself.
I don't know why Is he so mean, My mom and my dad cannot understand. They keep telling me not to talk about Christian, Deepfake, and Doctors!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It can be frustrating when the people we love don't seem to understand or support us. It's important to remember that everyone has different beliefs, values, and experiences, and it can be challenging to navigate those differences. However, it's never okay for someone to be dismissive, disrespectful, or insulting towards another person because of those differences.
It might be helpful to try and have a calm, open conversation with your parents about how their responses make you feel. Express your concerns and feelings in a respectful way, and see if you can find a way to understand each other better. If it's not possible to have that conversation with them, or if you're feeling unsupported, there are other resources available. You could speak to another trusted adult, such as a teacher or counselor, or seek support from a helpline. Remember that you deserve to feel heard and valued, and there are people who can help you find that support.
They keep telling me not to talk about Christian, Deepfake, and Doctors!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! They all think that's rude to talk about it.
It can be difficult when the people around us don't want to engage in conversations about topics we're interested in. It's important to remember that everyone has different opinions and priorities, and they may not always align with ours. While it can be frustrating and hurtful when our loved ones don't seem to want to listen or engage with us around certain topics, it's important to respect their boundaries and feelings as well.
It might be helpful to seek out other people or resources that share your interests and can provide you with the support and engagement you're looking for in those topics. This could be through joining a club or group related to your interest areas, reaching out to online communities, or finding a mentor or teacher who is knowledgeable and supportive.
Remember that it's okay to have different interests and opinions, and you have the right to explore and engage with those interests in a way that feels authentic and fulfilling to you. It can be difficult to navigate these differences with family members, but with patience and understanding, you may be able to find common ground and mutual respect.
I'm sorry to hear that you're feeling this way about your dad. It can be tough when you have conflicts or negative experiences with a family member. Remember that I'm here to provide support and information, but it may be helpful to talk to someone you trust, such as a family member, friend, or counselor, who can offer guidance and help you work through your feelings.
If you're looking for ways to improve your relationship with your dad, fostering open communication can be key. Here are some steps you can consider:
1. Find a calm moment: Choose a time when both you and your dad are in a relaxed state and willing to engage in a conversation.
2. Be respectful: Starting the conversation with respect and expressing your desire for a better relationship can help set a positive tone.
3. Express your feelings: Share with your dad how you have been feeling and the impact his actions or behavior have had on you. Use "I" statements to avoid sounding accusatory.
4. Listen actively: Allow your dad to share his thoughts and feelings. It's important to demonstrate that you value his perspective and are open to hearing his side of the story.
5. Seek compromise: Work together to find common ground and identify areas where you can both make changes to improve your relationship.
Remember that improving relationships takes time and effort from both parties involved. It's important to manage your expectations and be patient with the process.