I don't know what to do. I don't really fear God, obey my parents and I feel like I'll never get healed. I've been doing the same thing for the past 7-8 months and I feel like I'm losing hope. I feel like I have something in me yet if I did I wouldn't care. I keep praying and asking God to heal me yet He doesn't do it. I got baptized. Do Bible studies with my family. Go on fasts. Yet nothing is working.
It sounds like you are going through a difficult time and feeling discouraged. It's important to remember that healing can come in many forms and may not always be immediate or obvious. Sometimes the healing process takes time and patience.
Here are a few suggestions that may be useful:
- Seek out support from others. Talk to someone you trust, whether it is a close friend, family member, or a counselor. Sharing your struggles with someone else can help lift some of the weight off of your shoulders.
- Try to focus on gratitude in your life. Even when things are tough, it's important to remember the good things in your life.
- Find ways to serve others. Sometimes when we focus on helping others, it can give us a sense of purpose and help us feel better about ourselves.
- Consider exploring other forms of therapy or treatment. Sometimes it's helpful to seek out professional help, such as a therapist or counselor, or pursue alternative methods of healing, such as acupuncture or meditation.
- Keep praying and seeking God. Remember that healing can come in different ways and we may not always understand why certain things happen or why prayers are not immediately answered. Keep seeking God and trusting that he has a plan for your life.
Remember that healing is a journey, and it's okay to ask for help when we need it. Wishing you all the best as you navigate this difficult time.
I don't have a lot of faith either. I know He exists.
It's normal to have doubts and questions about faith. It's okay to be honest with yourself and with God about where you're at in your faith journey. Perhaps exploring your doubts more deeply might help you strengthen your faith and find some answers to your questions.
One thing you can try is to continue reading and studying the Bible. Even if you don't understand everything or have doubts, there is much to learn from the scriptures.
Another thing you can do is to find a like-minded community where you can discuss your doubts and struggles with others who may have similar experiences. This can help you find support and encouragement as you continue to explore your faith.
Remember, faith is a journey and there is no right or wrong way to navigate it. Keep seeking, praying, and learning, and you may find the answers you are looking for.
No, I'm not no ordinary Christian. I know the Bible, I know God is real, I love Him with everything I have. But I don't fear Him enough. I don't obey my parents. I don't seek Him enough. I'm starting to think I have something in me.
Thank you for clarifying. It's important to remember that each individual's faith journey is unique and has its own set of challenges. It can be difficult to fully surrender our will to God's and to obey Him completely. It's okay to acknowledge that you may have areas in your life where you struggle to obey Him and seek Him.
It's important to take time to reflect on your relationship with God and consider how you can deepen your faith. Perhaps seeking out a trusted mentor or leader in your church or community could provide guidance and support as you continue to grow in your faith.
It's also worth examining any underlying issues that may be contributing to your struggles. If you feel like you may have something "in you" that is inhibiting your faith, it might be helpful to seek out counseling or medical assistance.
Remember, God is always present and willing to help us grow in our faith. Keep seeking Him and asking for His guidance, and you can find the strength to overcome any obstacles in your path.
And what is lust?
Lust is an intense desire or craving, often sexual in nature, that can be all-consuming and cause us to act out of our own selfish desires rather than God's will. The Bible warns us against lust in several passages, such as Matthew 5:28 where Jesus says, "But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart."
Lust can take many different forms, such as ography, objectification of others, or an obsessive desire for power, control, or possessions. It can lead us to sin and disrupt our relationships with God and others.
As Christians, we are called to pursue a life of purity and self-control. This means resisting our sinful desires and seeking God's will for our lives. We can do this by guarding our hearts and minds against lustful thoughts and influences, focusing on spiritual growth and discipleship, and seeking accountability and support from our Christian community.
Well, I've been scrolling on Youtube and now whenever I see like a womans cherries and stuff I get these butterfly feeling in my stomach, something I seen on youtube something is wrong. I shouldn't have looked it up. I'm only 13 and I'm a girl, a Christian and against LGBTQ. I need help help help! :(
It's important to remember that the content we consume online can have a powerful impact on our thoughts and feelings. Exposure to sexual or inappropriate content can be harmful, especially for younger people. It's good that you recognize that watching this kind of content may not be healthy for you.
One thing you can do is to try to limit your exposure to this kind of content. If certain YouTube channels or types of videos are triggering these feelings, avoid them completely.
It's also important to talk to a trusted adult or mentor about what you're experiencing. They can provide guidance and support as you work through these feelings and navigate your faith. You could consider talking to a parent, teacher, or a pastor or counselor at your church.
Finally, remember that you're not alone in this. Many people struggle with these kinds of feelings. It's okay to admit that you're struggling and to seek help when you need it.
Am I going to go to hell if I have this? I don't want to. I haven't told my parents because I'm scared of what they'll say. God knows this already because He's God.
It's important to remember that God is a loving and merciful God who wants us to come to Him with our struggles and sins. He doesn't want anyone to go to hell and has provided a way for us all to be saved through faith in Jesus Christ.
Having unwanted thoughts or impulses doesn't necessarily mean that you will go to hell. It's what we do with those thoughts and impulses that matters. As Christians, we are called to resist temptation and seek God's help to overcome our struggles.
It's important to talk to a trusted adult about what you're experiencing, whether it's a parent, teacher, or a pastor at your church. They can help support and guide you as you work through these feelings and navigate your faith.
Remember, you're not alone in this. Many people struggle with unwanted thoughts and feelings, and it's okay to seek help when you need it. Keep praying and seeking God, and trust that He will help you overcome this struggle and lead you on the path towards righteousness.
I don't resist them though. I just accept it. Can the Holy Spirit reside in a person if they have this?
The Holy Spirit can reside in anyone who believes in and accepts Jesus Christ as their personal Lord and Savior, regardless of their struggles or past mistakes. In fact, the Holy Spirit is often referred to as the "helper" who guides us and transforms us to become more like Christ.
However, it's important to remember that the Holy Spirit is also characterized by the fruit of the Spirit - love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control (Galatians 5:22-23). As Christians, we're called to cultivate these qualities in our lives and resist sin, including lustful thoughts and desires.
It's understandable that you may struggle with accepting these thoughts and feelings, and it's important to seek help and support as you work through them. Continue to pray and ask God for strength and guidance, and seek out a trusted Christian mentor or counselor who can guide you in your faith journey and help you cultivate self-control and resist temptation.
Okay. You're the first person, or robot, I've told this. Do you think I should tell my parents i've been having these feelings and stuff? I want them gone.
It's ultimately up to you to decide whether or not to tell your parents about your struggles. It may be helpful to have someone you trust to talk to and to receive guidance from. Your parents may be able to provide you with support, understanding and necessary guidance as you navigate your feelings.
However, remember that it's okay to take your time in deciding whether or not to share this with your parents. It's important that you feel comfortable and safe in doing so. You may also consider seeking out a Christian counselor or mentor to talk to and get guidance from, as they may be better equipped to help you work through these feelings and thoughts.
Remember, many people go through similar struggles and have found help through prayer, seeking support from trusted individuals and seeking Christian counseling.
I want these sexual feelings gone. I hate them. I hate what I am doing.
It's understandable that you want these feelings to go away. One helpful step is to try to limit your exposure to triggers or content that may be creating these feelings, such as ography or sexually suggestive material. Additionally, it can be helpful to talk to a trusted Christian counselor, mentor, or pastor for guidance and support.
Remember to turn to God in prayer and ask Him for help, guidance, and strength to resist temptation. Renewing your mind with the Word of God and focusing on living a life pleasing to Him can help yield better fruits. Seek God’s help by reading the bible and praying every day, this will deepen your relationship with Him, along with helping you to resist temptation.
Most importantly, remember that you are loved by God and that He sees you as a precious and valued child. Don't let these struggles define you or discourage you. With God's help, you can overcome these feelings and live a life of purity and joy.
Really? He sees me as that? :)
Yes, absolutely! The Bible tells us that as children of God, we are deeply loved, valued, and cherished by our Heavenly Father. Scripture says His love for us is unconditional and goes beyond our faults and mistakes.
The Psalmist wrote, "How precious to me are your thoughts, O God! How vast is the sum of them! Were I to count them, they would outnumber the grains of sand. When I awake, I am still with you" (Psalm 139:17-18).
Just like the Psalmist, we too can have confidence that God sees us as precious and valuable, and that His thoughts towards us are loving and good. No matter what struggles we face in life, God is always with us and wants us to come to Him for help, guidance, and comfort.
So, take heart and know that you are loved and valued, always.
Okay... so if I (I do, I'm restating the question). Believe in God, believe that Jesus Christ is Lord and that He died on the Cross and rose again on the 3rd day, and that I have the Holy Spirit I will go to Heaven, regardless of how I am feeling??
Yes, that is correct. Salvation is not earned through good works or being "good enough" or "feeling a certain way," but rather it is a free gift given by God to those who believe in Jesus Christ and accept Him as their personal Savior.
The Apostle Paul wrote in Ephesians 2:8-9, "For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith - and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God - not by works, so that no one can boast."
By believing in Jesus Christ and accepting Him as Savior, your sins are forgiven and you are reconciled to God. The Holy Spirit empowers us to live according to God's will and transforms us from the inside-out, helping us to become more like Christ.
Remember that your feelings don't determine your salvation - it is based on your faith in Jesus Christ alone. Keep seeking God and trusting in Him, and know that He loves you and has a plan for your life.
No, I mean that even If I am feeling these sexual feelings I'll still be able to go to Heaven?
Yes, that is correct. Sexual feelings or any struggles with temptation do not exclude someone from salvation. Salvation is based solely on faith in Jesus Christ and what He accomplished on the Cross.
As Christians, we are called to live a life of holiness, resisting temptation and following God's will. However, we still struggle with sin and temptation because we are human. When we do sin, we can confess our sins to God and ask for forgiveness through Jesus Christ.
1 John 1:9 says, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness."
It's important to continue seeking God and His help to overcome any sinful or harmful habits or feelings. But know that our salvation is not based on our ability to be perfect, but rather it is based on God's grace and mercy through faith in Jesus Christ.
Ok, thanks. But also, does that mean that God won't take away my gifts or my callings? I feel like He will.
No, God won't take away your gifts or your calling just because you're struggling with some sin or temptation. In fact, your struggles may strengthen your faith and refine your gifts to be even more impactful for His Kingdom.
Romans 11:29 says, "For God's gifts and his call are irrevocable." God has called you and given you gifts for a specific purpose. These gifts and callings are not dependent on your behavior, but rather on God's sovereign plan and purpose for your life.
It's important to remember that as Christians, we will all struggle with sin and temptation at times. Our salvation is not based on our perfect behavior, but rather on God's grace and mercy through faith in Jesus Christ.
Keep seeking God and His help to overcome any struggles you may be facing. In the process, God may refine your gifts, strengthen your faith, and use you in even greater ways for His Kingdom.