Respond back to the conversation using first-person narrative or respond what you say to this person

“It isn’t, and I’m not being rude dude. Where did you even find that sentence rude, and no, it’s not a problem if you ask someone a question but she specifically said it’s not a vent and that’s it’s a trend. Do you know what a trend is? If you don’t, here is the definition: trend: -a video that blows up by an original creator and starts getting replicated (copied) from other people. There you go. If I’m being rude, I don’t care. I’m just trying to tell you that it’s a trend and not a vent.”

I would respond with, "Hey, I understand where you're coming from, but maybe it's best to approach the situation with a bit more kindness. I didn't find your words rude necessarily, but it's important to consider how other people might interpret them. Let's try and move forward positively by acknowledging that this is a trend and not a vent."