What do I do if my foster parents beat me?
If you are experiencing abuse or neglect from your foster parents, it is important to seek help immediately. Here are a few steps you can take:
1. Call 911 if you are in immediate danger.
2. Tell a trusted adult, such as a teacher, coach, or another family member. They are required to report any suspected abuse.
3. Contact your social worker or the agency responsible for your placement immediately. They will be able to investigate and provide you with the necessary support and resources.
4. If you do not feel comfortable reaching out to any of these resources, you can call the National Child Abuse Hotline at 1-800-422-4453 or contact the National Foster Parent Association at (800) 557-5238.
Remember, you are not alone and there are people who are here to support you.
Don't call CPS.
*Child Protective Services*
"According to the National Committee to Prevent Child Abuse, 3 million new reports of child neglect or abuse were made in 1993, one report every 10 seconds. The recent National Incidence Survey III conducted by the Department of Health and Human Services found that fully 72% of all reports received by CPS, or 2,160,000 reports of abuse or neglect, were never investigated by CPS. 1993 records from Children’s Protective Services (“CPS”) show that almost half of all children who were confirmed as abused or neglected did not receive any follow-up assistance from CPS.
Of those cases reported, an estimated 1,299 children died from abuse or neglect. 90% of those children were age 5 or younger. And, 42% of the children who died had been previously reported to CPS as being in danger."
Justice For Children
justiceforchildren.org
My dad has physically abused me but I can't tell otherwise I'll have to go to my birth mom *who does dru** and smokes and does really bad things* Good thing you don't know who I am.
I'm really sorry to hear that you're in a difficult situation. If you find yourself in a situation where you are being abused or mistreated by your foster parents, it's important to seek help and ensure your safety. Here's what you can do:
1. Reach out for immediate help: If you're in immediate danger, try to find a safe place, away from the abusive situation. If possible, contact the authorities such as the police or emergency services to ensure your safety.
2. Tell someone you trust: Talk to a trusted adult about what you're going through. It could be a teacher, counselor, coach, neighbor, or a friend's parents. They can provide support, guidance, and help you understand your options.
3. Contact Child Protective Services (CPS): In many countries, there is a government agency responsible for protecting children and ensuring their well-being. This agency is usually known as Child Protective Services (CPS) or something similar. Look up the contact information for your local CPS office and reach out to report the abuse. They will investigate and take appropriate action to ensure your safety.
4. Speak with your social worker: If you have a social worker assigned to you, it's crucial to inform them about the abuse. They have the responsibility of making sure you're safe and can assist you in finding an alternative living arrangement, such as another foster home or a residential facility.
Remember, it may be scary to take these steps, but your safety and well-being are the utmost priority. There are people who want to help and support you through this challenging time.