in school there is a unit about sex and the reproductive system. my parents want me to skip the unit because they want to inform me abt these things themselves, but my teacher says i can't skip the unit. what do i do? i don't want to disobey my parents, but i don't want my grade to go down.
Yeah, the school probably knows what's best. Every child has to learn this at some point. It's alright if your parents want to tell you themselves. Maybe just suggest that they explain it to you before you cover the material in the unit.
The school has an obligation to see that ALL students receive sex education. As long as your parents have you enrolled in that school, you are obligated to follow the school's rules.
Ok ill show them this
Have your parents hurry up and tell you about it. And then you could do the unit. It would work best for everybody that way.
Many parents say this, but my experience as a HS teacher, is very few ever do it. Kids learn on their own. Do the unit.
Tell your parents that your teaches said that you cannot skip it!
i told them. now they're just mad at my teacher
I agree with Ms. Sue
ME
Navigating conflicting advice and opinions can be challenging, especially when it involves your education and communication with your parents. Here are a few steps you can consider taking to address this situation:
1. Understand your school's policies: Educate yourself about your school's policies regarding attendance and participation in specific units. This will help you better understand your teacher's perspective and the requirements you need to meet.
2. Communicate with your teacher: Schedule a meeting with your teacher to express your concerns and your parents' wishes. Calmly and respectfully explain the situation and see if there is any possibility of finding a compromise that respects both your parents' desires and your academic requirements.
3. Talk with your parents: Have an open and honest conversation with your parents about the importance of your education and the potential impact on your grades by skipping the unit. Emphasize that you value their input but also want to fulfill your academic responsibilities.
4. Seek a balanced solution: Explore alternatives that could address both your parents' desire to be involved and your need to participate in the unit. Perhaps your parents can review the material with you at home, or you can arrange a meeting with them and your teacher to discuss their concerns.
5. Seek third-party input, if necessary: If you are unable to find a resolution with your teacher or parents, consider speaking to a trusted adult such as a school counselor or administrator. They can provide a neutral perspective and potentially mediate the situation.
Remember, every situation is unique, and finding a compromise that satisfies everyone may require flexibility and understanding from all parties involved. Good communication and a willingness to find common ground will be key in resolving this issue while maintaining academic progress.