What is the difference between an orchid's relationship with a tree and a mistletoe's relationship with a tree?

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An orchid is a type of plant that grows on trees without harming them. This type of relationship is called epiphytic, meaning the orchid gets nutrients from the air and rain. A mistletoe, on the other hand, is a parasitic plant that grows on trees and takes nutrients from the tree, harming it in the process.