What is the most helpful way to discuss a loved one at a funeral or memorial service?

Responses

A. settling old scores with the departed person’s enemiessettling old scores with the departed person’s enemies - no response given

B. listing all the details that anger you about the situationlisting all the details that anger you about the situation - no response given

C. relating your happy memories of the departed person - no response given

D. calling out any people who did not attend the service

calling out any people who did not attend the service - It is not helpful or appropriate to call out people who did not attend the service. It is best to focus on honoring and remembering the loved one who has passed away.