What is the secret to reaching someone with words?

i need help figuring out what this means.

Oh to make other people happy not caring about his/her feelings at the moment

The writer can put certain words, phrases, or something that is important to him/her in the poem which will make the reader feel certain emotions?

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Let us know what you think each of these phrases means:

"the secret to"
"reaching someone"
"with words"

It also may help to determine what each one does NOT mean!

does it mean using certain words or phrases

Yes, using words (not gestures, not anger, not holding hands … )

… to accomplish what?

to let the reader know how you feel??

Possibly. This is usually used when one person is trying to comfort or direct another person. (That other person doesn't usually care how the speaker feels!)

How can you explain that?

To express your feelings and to understand how others and or the writer felt

You're missing the "reaching out" part.