In Sahih Muslim Book 001, Number 0248: Abu Huraira reported: The Messenger of Allah (may peace be upon him) said to me: they (the people) till constantly ask you, Abu Huraira, (about different things pertaining to religion) the they would say: Well, there is Allah, but after all who created Allah? He (Abu Huraira) narrated: Once we were in the mosque that some of the Bedouins came there and said: Well, there is Allah, but who created Allah? He (the narrator) said: I took hold of the pebbles in my fist and flung at them and remarked: Stand up, stand up (go away) my friend (the Holy Prophet) told the truth. There is no doubt that the Holy Prophet told the truth. But would it not be good to answer with hikmah the question “who created Allah” so that the questioner would understand & be convinced rather than giving the harsh treatment as narrated in the hadith above. I am sure there are many convincing, logical arguments & ways to answer this question. The understanding obtained would surely help to strengthen the questioner’s faith. Q16:125 “Invite to the Way of your Lord with hikmah & fair preaching & argue with them in a way that is better….” Would not the action of the sahabah potray a dogmatic view of Islam?"

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Praise be to Allaah.

This question which the Kuffaar have asked you is inherently false and self-contradictory. If we were to say – for the sake of argument – that someone created Allaah, then they would ask you, Who created the creator of the creator? Then, who created the creator of the creator of the creator?! And so on, ad infinitum. This is irrational and impossible.

All of creation goes back to the Creator Who created all things. No one created Him; He created everything other than Himself. This is what makes sense and is logical. This creator is Allaah, may He be glorified and exalted.

With regard to what our religion tells us, the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) told us about this question, where it comes from, and how to respond to it.

Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “People will keep on asking question until someone will say, ‘Allaah created the universe, but who created Allaah?’ Whoever encounters anything like that, let him say, ‘Amantu Billaah (I believe in Allaah).’”

The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “The Shaytaan will come to one of you and say, ‘Who created the heaven? Who created the earth?’ He will say, ‘Allaah’” – then he mentioned something similar (to the previous report), and added, “And His Messengers.” [i.e., amantu Billaah wa Rusulihi = I believe in Allaah and His Messengers]

The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “The Shaytaan will come to one of you and say, ‘Who created such and such?’ until he says to him, ‘Who created your Lord?’ When it reaches that stage, let him seek refuge with Allaah [say A’oodhu Billaahi min ash-shaytaan ir-rajeem = I seek refuge with Allaah from the accursed Shaytaan] and stop thinking about it.”

The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “The Shaytaan will come to a person and say, ‘Who created such and such…’” and he narrated the whole report. (Imaam Muslim, 134).

In these ahaadeeth we see:

Where this question comes from – from the Shaytaan;

How to deal with it, which is:

to stop pursuing these thoughts and these tricks of the Shaytaan

to say, “I believe in Allaah and His Messengers”

to seek refuge with Allaah from the Shaytaan.

It was also reported that one should spit drily three times to one’s left, and recite Qul Huwa Allaahu ahad.

(See "Problems and Solutions" in the Shaykh’s Books section of this website).

3. With regard to the prior existence of Allaah, our Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) has told us about this, for example:

He (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “O Allaah, You are the First and there is nothing before You; O Allaah, You are the Last and there is nothing after You.” (Narrated by Muslim, 2713)

He (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Allaah existed when there was nothing apart from Him.” According to another report: “There was nothing before Him.” (Narrated by al-Bukhaari; the first report 3020; the second report 6982).

This is in addition to what is stated in the aayaat of the Qur’aan. The believer believes without a doubt, the kaafir denies and the munaafiq doubts. We ask Allaah to grant us sincere and certain faith with no doubts. And Allaah is the
Source of strength.

Islam Q&A
Sheikh Muhammed Salih Al-Munajjid

The hadith you mentioned from Sahih Muslim describes an incident where some Bedouins asked the question, "Who created Allah?" Abu Huraira, one of the companions of the Prophet Muhammad, responded by throwing pebbles at them and telling them to leave. You argued that instead of responding harshly, it would have been better to provide a reasoned and convincing answer to help strengthen the questioner's faith.

It is important to note that the actions of the Sahaba (companions of the Prophet) are not necessarily meant to be taken as an instruction or a paradigm for how every Muslim should act in similar situations. Each individual Sahabi had their own unique personality and circumstances, and they may have responded differently based on their understanding and personal experiences.

Furthermore, it is worth mentioning that the context of the situation also matters. The Bedouins who asked the question in the mosque may have been doing so with a sarcastic or mocking tone, questioning the concept of a divine entity. In such a scenario, Abu Huraira's response could be seen as a way to maintain the sanctity of the mosque and discourage any disrespectful behavior.

That being said, Islam encourages the use of wisdom (hikmah) and gentle persuasion in conveying the message of Islam. Quranic verse 16:125, which you referred to, advises Muslims to invite people to the path of their Lord using wisdom and fair preaching, and to argue in a better and more refined manner. This means that when faced with difficult questions or challenges to their faith, Muslims are encouraged to respond with patience, knowledge, and kindness.

Regarding the question of who created Allah, in Islamic theology, Allah is believed to be the eternal Creator who is uncreated Himself. Islam views Allah as the ultimate cause and source of everything, and He is not subject to the limitations of time, space, or cause and effect that apply to created beings. This concept, however, may be difficult for some individuals to understand or accept. Explaining this concept requires referring to Islamic theology, philosophy, and metaphysics, which explore the nature of Allah and the concept of creation in greater detail.

To address the question of who created Allah in a more persuasive manner, it would be beneficial to engage in a respectful and intellectual discussion, using logical arguments, scriptural references, and philosophical concepts. This approach will help the questioner gain a deeper understanding of Islamic beliefs and potentially strengthen their faith.

In conclusion, while the actions of the Sahaba in the mentioned incident do not necessarily represent a dogmatic view of Islam, it is generally more effective to respond to questions with hikmah (wisdom), patience, and logical arguments. Engaging in respectful dialogue and providing reasoned explanations can help promote understanding and strengthen one's faith.