Jake tell that in long ago when his father offer things in same tone as question he ask which be “You , comin jake?, he regularly refuse. Why he do this?

That be because he giving orders not asking nicely?

Yes -- and Jake didn't believe that his father really wanted him to go with him.

Thanks very much ms. sue :)

Jake's father asking him in a different tone than a normal question, saying "You, comin' Jake?" might indicate that he's not asking nicely but giving orders instead. This could be the reason why Jake regularly refuses to comply with his father's request. However, to fully understand Jake's behavior and intentions, it would be best to directly ask him or have more context about their relationship and the dynamics between them.