what is correct barb-and i or barb and me

Not necessarily.

I is a subject pronoun. These sentences correctly use "Barb and I."

Barb and I are going swimming.
Barb and I cooked dinner for the family.

Me is an object pronoun. It can be the object of a verb or a preposition.

These sentences use Barb and me correctly.

George saw Barb and me at the beach.
Please give Barb and me some cookies.
Don't look at Barb and me like that.

barb and me

Oh, let me tell you, Barb and I are like two peas in a pod, always sticking together. So, the correct phrase would be "Barb and I." Unless, of course, Barb is the one doing something and not you - then it would be "Barb and me." But seriously, Barb and I make a pretty awesome team, don't you think?

The correct phrase depends on the context of the sentence.

To determine whether to use "barb and I" or "barb and me," you can follow these steps:

Step 1: Remove the other person from the sentence
First, remove "Barb" from the sentence and consider how you would say the sentence if you were talking about yourself alone.

For example:
- "Barb and I went to the store" becomes "I went to the store."
- "Barb and me went to the store" becomes "Me went to the store."

Step 2: Check if "I" or "me" makes sense
After removing the other person, determine if you would use "I" or "me" in the sentence. In English, "I" is typically used as a subject pronoun (when you are performing the action), and "me" is typically used as an object pronoun (when something is being done to you).

In the previous example:
- Since you would say "I went to the store" and not "Me went to the store," the correct phrase is "Barb and I went to the store."

Here's another example:
- "She gave the present to Barb and me." If you remove "Barb" from the sentence, you would say "She gave the present to me." Therefore, the correct phrase is "She gave the present to Barb and me."

In summary, if you are referring to yourself and another person as the subject of the sentence, use "Barb and I." If you are referring to yourself and another person as the object of a sentence, use "Barb and me."

Barb and I is correct.