What is the molality of a solution that has 80 grams of Benzoic Acid dissolved in 400 mL of ethanol. The density of ethanol is .789 grams/moles

moles benzoic acid = grams/molar mass.

Use density to calculate mass ethanol, then convert to kg. (By the way, that density is 0.789 g/mL and not /mol).
Then molality = moles benzoic acid/kg solvent.

How do i use density to calculate mass of ethanol?

mass = volume x density

You know 400 mL ethanol and you know the density. That will give you the mass. Use that, convert to kg and substitute into m = moles/kg solvent.

I get .66 moles of Benzoic for the first step which is converting the 80 grams of Benzoic into moles.

Then i did mass=volume x density
and got .3156 kg.

what do i do with those two numbers

First you should not round the 80/122.123 value. I get 0.65508 and I just carry those numbers in the calculator. Your other value of 0.3156 kg solvent is correct.

Now molality = moles/kg solvent.
moles = 0.65508 (which is still in my calculator) and divide by kg of 0.3156 = ??, then round to 2 places, if the value of 80 g benzoic acid is stated that way in the problem, or to 3 places if it is listed as 80.0 grams.

This was so helpful. Thank you for all of your patience and cooperation!

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