This is pretty irrelevant to subjects, but I've had a problem (no, not a math problem) that I could use some good advice on.
Today I received a detention for messing around with a friend during a computer apps class. It's easy as hell, so I find it easy to be distracted. Anyway.. there's these two kids in my class who get away with swearing and fighting, and another who continually shoots rubber bands across the room. I plan on approaching the teacher during my lunch break tomorrow and talking to her about the problem and hoping to get myself out of detention with a reasonable explanation. How should I approach her, and what could I say to help her understand how I feel that she's been unfair towards me?
I believe in educating each student to the best of his/her ability. Your teacher evidently believes that you are capable of much more cooperative behavior in class, so she's giving you an opportunity to straighten up in detention.
Your argument that others have worse behavior doesn't cut any ice with me. If you break the law or flaunt the rules, you are guilty, no matter what anyone else does. Just try getting out of a speeding ticket for going 10 miles over the limit by telling the judge that other cars were passing you on the road.
Your explanation isn't "reasonable" -- that you were messing around because you find it easy to be distracted in this easy class. Tough! You were disturbing the class and deserve whatever penalty is given you.
In the future, ask yourself why would anyone go to school to take easy classes (unless they were required). One ought to choose the hardest subjects, from the most demanding teachers. No exceptions. You wont have time to "mess"around. In later years, you will be very successful.
It's great that you want to address the issue and communicate your concerns with your teacher. Here are some suggestions on how to approach her and express your feelings in a constructive manner:
1. Choose the right time and place: Make sure to approach your teacher during an appropriate time, such as lunch break or after class when she has a moment to talk. It's important to respect her time and not interrupt her during a lesson or any other important tasks.
2. Be respectful and calm: Start the conversation by respectfully addressing your teacher and expressing your desire to discuss a concern. Stay calm and composed throughout the conversation, as getting angry or defensive will only hinder effective communication.
3. Explain your perspective: Share your personal observations and experiences without directly criticizing or blaming the teacher. Focus on how their actions have made you feel and how it has affected your learning experience. For example, you can mention that you feel frustrated when you see other students behaving inappropriately without consequences while you received a detention.
4. Ask for clarification: Inquire about the reasons behind your detention to gain a better understanding of the situation. It's possible that your behavior was perceived differently or had a more severe impact compared to the other students' actions. By having a clear understanding of the teacher's perspective, you can better address the issue.
5. Propose a solution: Instead of just expressing your grievances, offer potential solutions or suggestions that can help improve the situation. This shows that you are proactive and willing to work towards a resolution. For example, you can suggest a clearer set of classroom rules or propose fair consequences for inappropriate behavior.
Remember that open and respectful communication is key. By approaching your teacher in a mature and understanding manner, you increase the chances of finding a solution or gaining a better insight into the situation. Good luck!