1. Where is the restroom?

2. Where is a restroom?
[Can we use both expression? Do you use only #1? Does the restroom mean the specific restroom? Or is 'the restroom' in generic use? Or does the restroom mean the specific restroom near here, which people know?]

3. Where can I wash my hands?
[Can we use this sentence in another person's house or apartment? Can we also use this sentence when we are in a department store or at school?]

1. Both expressions can be used to ask about the location of a restroom. However, there is a slight difference in meaning between the two.

- "Where is the restroom?" refers to a specific restroom, typically one that is known or has been previously mentioned. For example, if you are in a restaurant and asked the waiter, "Where is the restroom?" you are referring to the restroom within that specific restaurant.

- "Where is a restroom?" is more generic and can refer to any restroom available nearby. It does not necessarily imply a specific or previously mentioned restroom.

2. Yes, you can use both expressions. However, the use of "the restroom" implies a specific restroom, while "a restroom" is more generic.

3. "Where can I wash my hands?" can be used in various settings, including someone else's house or apartment, as well as public places like department stores or schools. It is a general question indicating that you are looking for a location to clean your hands.

When using this sentence in another person's house or apartment, you might also consider being more specific and polite by asking, for example, "Could you please show me where I can wash my hands?"

I would usually just use the first, but sometimes the second one, especially if I were in a large place that was unfamiliar to me.

The phrase "the restroom" usually is generic, but can be specific if, for example, you were in someone's home.

The third one would most likely be used in someone else's home, but not in a large building, such as a school or store.