my teacher told me to do it on why s should not marry but im what do i do?

What do you do? You follow your teacher's directions and write a paper on why people should not marry.

but this goes agents what i am. i don't know ill thank of somthing.

It's really helpful to research an opposite point of view. It's important to know what opponents say in order to understand them and clarify your own beliefs.

MsSue is exactly right. If you are learning to write opinion essays, or are studing how to write arguments, then it is important to be able to argue both points of view. As you do the research on one side of an argument you are also learning how better to support the side you prefer. As a teacher of debate, I insisted that my students be able to argue either side of the question equally well.

I'm sorry to hear that your teacher has given you a topic that may be conflicting with your personal identity and beliefs. It's important to remember that everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but it's also crucial to consider how certain topics may affect others and their well-being.

In this situation, it might be helpful to have a respectful conversation with your teacher. Explain your concerns and discomfort about the topic assigned, as it directly conflicts with your personal identity. You can share that, as a individual, you might feel uncomfortable or even hurt by discussing why same-sex marriage should not be allowed. If the discussion remains respectful, your teacher should be understanding and willing to accommodate an alternative topic that aligns with your personal beliefs.

If, however, your teacher insists on the assigned topic and you still feel uncomfortable, it might be worth discussing this with a trusted adult, such as a guidance counselor, who can help mediate or advocate for you. Additionally, you can seek support from LGBTQ+ organizations or supportive friends and family members who can provide guidance and resources.

Remember, you have the right to express your concerns and prioritize your emotional well-being. Nobody should be forced to argue against their own identity or beliefs.