can someone give me an Example of a nonverbal communication with a relaxed situation or a tense situation. to

help me understand the difference.
to me non verbal is like gesture and eye contact, body language.

In a tense situation, the agressor tends to look directly into the eyes of the presumed opponent. The opponent tries to meet the stare, but finds him/herself looking away from time to time to break the tension.

A common defense body posture in a tense situation is to cross one's arms in front of his/her body. In a tense situation a person tends to lean forward on his chair, with a fairly rigid body.

In a relaxed situation, a person leans back in his/her chair and may cross his/her legs -- but not the arms.

In a relaxed situation, it's easier to make eye contact.

thanks i believe i understand
with non verbal communication in a tense situation you are more pressured and tense that the stareing is more your words than in a tense verbal communication like yelling am i correct so the communication goes on even without words.

Verbal communication involves words. However, yelling may or may not involve words, so it can be merely nonverbal or combine the two forms of communication. Your voice intonations (paralanguage) are another noverbal cue.

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This may be more than you wanted to know, but I hope it helps a little more. Thanks for asking.

Verbal Communication,Relaxed Situation:
Family Members & Friends

compare and contrast charateristics of verbal and nonverbal communications.
(3 ea.)
#1

using relaxed situation: Family Members & Friends.

#2

tense situation: supervisors &
instructors

Characteristics of Verbal Communication:

1. Clear and direct: In a relaxed situation, with family members and friends, verbal communication tends to be clear and direct. Conversations flow easily, and people generally feel comfortable sharing their thoughts and feelings.

2. Informal language: In a relaxed situation, people often use informal language, such as slang and colloquialisms. There is less concern for adhering to strict rules of grammar and formality.

3. Emotional expression: Verbal communication allows for the expression of emotions, either through the words themselves or through the tone of voice. In a relaxed situation, people may express their emotions more openly and with less restraint.

Characteristics of Nonverbal Communication:

1. Body language: In both tense and relaxed situations, nonverbal communication often occurs through body language. In a relaxed situation, people may have more open posture, lean in towards each other, and make more frequent eye contact. In a tense situation with supervisors or instructors, people may have more closed-off body language, with crossed arms or legs, or avoid eye contact.

2. Tone of voice: Nonverbal communication can also be conveyed through tone of voice even without words. In a relaxed situation, the tone is usually warm, engaging, and friendly. In a tense situation, the tone may be cold, dismissive, or even angry.

3. Facial expressions: Facial expressions are another important aspect of nonverbal communication. In a relaxed situation, people tend to have more open and expressive faces, with genuine smiles and laughter. In a tense situation, facial expressions may be more reserved, and there may be more instances of frowning, furrowing of the brow, or other signs of stress or disapproval.

#1 In a relaxed situation with family members and friends, verbal communication is often casual and informal. It may involve sharing stories, jokes, and personal experiences. The tone of voice is typically more laid-back, and there is often a level of comfort and familiarity in the conversation. Nonverbal communication in this situation may involve gestures, facial expressions, and body language that show affection, such as hugging, smiling, or nodding in agreement. Eye contact is usually more frequent, indicating active listening and engagement in the conversation.

#2 In a tense situation with supervisors and instructors, verbal communication tends to be more formal and professional. It may involve giving instructions, discussing work-related matters, or addressing concerns or issues. The tone of voice may be more serious and focused. Nonverbal communication in this situation can include maintaining a professional posture, making appropriate eye contact, and using controlled gestures to convey emphasis or authority. There may be less physical touch or informal expressions of affection compared to a relaxed situation with family members or friends.

In summary, the characteristics of verbal communication in a relaxed situation involve casual and informal conversation with a comfortable tone of voice, while in a tense situation, it becomes more formal and focused on professional matters. Nonverbal communication in a relaxed situation is often affectionate and engaged, while in a tense situation, it is more controlled and authoritative.

#1 Characteristics of Verbal Communication in a Relaxed Situation with Family Members & Friends:

- Conversations are more informal and casual.
- Use of slang, inside jokes, and shared experiences.
- Emphasis on building and maintaining relationships.
- Tone of voice and inflection play a significant role in conveying meaning.
- Verbal cues, such as laughter, expressions of agreement or disagreement, and storytelling, are common.

Characteristics of Nonverbal Communication in a Relaxed Situation with Family Members & Friends:
- Use of relaxed body language, such as leaning back, crossing legs, or open gestures.
- Eye contact is more frequent and comfortable.
- Facial expressions are more relaxed, reflecting emotions such as happiness, joy, or amusement.
- Physical touch, such as hugs or pats on the back, is more acceptable.
- Proximity is generally closer, with individuals standing or sitting closer to each other.

#2 Characteristics of Verbal Communication in a Tense Situation with Supervisors & Instructors:
- Conversations are more formal and professional.
- Clear and concise language is typically used to convey information or instructions.
- Hierarchical power dynamic is evident, with supervisors or instructors having authority over subordinates or students.
- Tone of voice may be more authoritative or assertive to establish control.
- Emphasis on conveying information accurately and efficiently.

Characteristics of Nonverbal Communication in a Tense Situation with Supervisors & Instructors:
- Body language may include a more upright posture and tense gestures.
- Eye contact may be more intense, reflecting concentration or a commanding presence.
- Facial expressions may be more serious, reflecting professionalism and focus.
- Proximity may be more distant, maintaining personal space and respecting boundaries.
- Use of hand gestures may be more deliberate, indicating clarification or emphasis.

In tense situations, both verbal and nonverbal communication take on a more serious and focused tone, with an overall emphasis on conveying authority, control, and professionalism.