Hi so I just made-up with my friend because we just got in a fight and we're completely fine now, we just recently hung out. Today is her birthday and so
I wanted to give her a present and so I said "can I give it now?" and she said "no could just put it by the door because we're cleaning." I tell my mom and she said "that's just rude, she can't just open the door?!" I agree but I don't want to have her think I'm mad at her and then get in a fight again what should I do?
any other ideas
just tell her that shes the best and that nothing could ever come between you two and then take her a gift or something because if your true friends an apology and something small like a memory is what matters most no friend that has always been there for you will ever leave u because of a fight
You should tell her how you felt, and that you understand that she was not trying to hurt your feelings, but next time maybe you should ask her when a good time would be to open her present together! If she still seems off, and is being rude directly to you later, I would not be her friend. Friends are kind, respectful, and caring, a friend would not hurt your feelings continuously. Good luck! đ
It seems like you're in a situation where you want to give your friend a birthday present, but she asked you to leave it by the door because they are currently cleaning. You're concerned about how this might be perceived by your mom and your friend. Here's what you can do:
1. Communicate with your friend: Reach out to your friend and express your concern about leaving the gift by the door. Politely explain that you wanted to personally hand it to her as a gesture of friendship on her birthday. Ask if there's a specific time that works for her to receive the gift.
2. Be understanding: Remember that your friend might have valid reasons for not wanting you to come in. Respect her boundaries and try to understand her perspective. It's possible that she genuinely wants to keep the house clean or may be preoccupied with other matters.
3. Consider alternative options: If your friend still prefers you leave the gift by the door, respect her wishes and find a creative way to make it special. You could attach a heartfelt note or a card expressing your feelings. Additionally, you can discuss with your friend if there is an alternative time to exchange the present, such as meeting up later or dropping it off at another agreed-upon location.
4. Discuss with your mom: Explain the situation to your mom, including your friend's reasoning for not wanting you to come inside. Reassure your mom that everything is fine between you and your friend and that it's just a temporary arrangement due to the cleaning. Encourage her to understand your friend's perspective as well.
Remember, communication and understanding are key in maintaining healthy relationships.