12.)In which excerpt from John Donne's A Valediction forbidding mourning does the speaker most directly describe the relationship between him and his wife?

a. but we by love so much refind/that ourselves know not what it is
b. so let us melt and make no noise/ no tear-floods nor sight-tempests move
c. dull sublunary lovers love(whose soul is sense) cannot admit
d.as virtuous men pass midly away/and whisper to their souls to go