I cannot figure of what means by what life experiences i had at trust vs.mistrust stage of life?
Dear anonymous,
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-Your walrusy king
The way you state your question is confusing. Children learn to trust and distrust based on life experiences. If someone makes promises that are rarely kept, the child learns to distrust that person. When a child needs comforting (a skinned knee, hurt feelings, whatever reason) and mom or grandpa is always there to "make it better," the child learns to trust that person. If a child steps on a wet spot that looks wet but solid and ends up up to her ankles in mud, the child may learn that appearances can be deceiving and might not always be trusted.
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The question is question what was happening in your life at this stage?
is Your walrusy king a tutor?
No, walrus king is not a tutor. Okay, think about YOUR experiences that caused you to trust someone or something, or to distrust. Do you trust that a paved surface will provide solid footing? How do you know that? Did someone tell you or did you find out by experience? Has a friend or sibling ever promised to share with you, then did not do so? Do you trust that person now? Think about it.
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Dear anonymous,
I honestly did not intend to offend you. I would like to apologize for my actions.
-Your walrusy king
To understand the life experiences you had at the trust vs. mistrust stage of life, it is helpful to refer to Erik Erikson's theory of psychosocial development. Erikson proposed that individuals go through eight stages of development, with each stage characterized by a specific conflict or challenge that must be resolved.
The trust vs. mistrust stage is the first stage of Erikson's theory, which occurs from birth to approximately 18 months of age. This stage is centered around the development of trust, both in oneself and in others. Here's how you can reflect on the life experiences you may have had during this stage:
1. Consider your caregivers: Think about the primary caregivers in your early life, such as parents, guardians, or other family members. Reflect on their behavior and how they tended to your needs. Were they responsive, reliable, and nurturing? Or did they struggle to meet your needs consistently?
2. Reflect on your environment: Consider the overall environment in which you grew up. Was it stable and secure, or were there significant disruptions or instabilities? Was there a sense of safety and predictability in your surroundings?
3. Connect with your early memories: Although it can be challenging to recall specific memories from such an early stage of life, try to connect with any memories or feelings you may have from your infancy period. Think about how you felt in various situations, especially around your caregivers. Did you generally feel safe, loved, and cared for, or were you often anxious, fearful, or neglected?
4. Assess the impact: Evaluate how the experiences you had during the trust vs. mistrust stage may have influenced your current views on trust and relationships. For example, if you had consistent and nurturing caregivers, you may have developed a sense of trust and security in your relationships. On the other hand, if you experienced a lack of consistent care, you might find it difficult to trust others.
It's important to remember that these experiences during the trust vs. mistrust stage provide a foundation for later stages of development. However, they do not determine your entire life trajectory. If you find that you have challenges related to trust, seeking therapy or counseling can help you explore and address these issues more deeply.