What are some reasons that could persuade your parents to go to places alone with just your friends.
I assume you want to go out alone with friends.
Be dependable.
Do what you say you'll do.
Be home on time.
Bring your friends home so your parents can become acquainted with them.
Why don't your parents want you to go out with friends?
They want me to be older because since I'm a girl they think "things" could happen to me.
http://abclocal.go.com/ktrk/story?section=news/local&id=7440934
This is an example of why parents want to protect their children. This 16 year-old girl disappeared in 2010 after she got off the school bus, about 30 feet from her house.
Talk with your parents about the "things" they think could happen.
Chances are those things are rare. You could discuss ways you could avoid those "things."
Ms. Sue is right. You need to discuss these kinds of things with your parents.
Children and teens that go missing each year is only one of the circumstances that your parents might be thinking of, but undoubtedly there are others.
Stats on missing kids, in case you want to use facts in your paper:
http://www.cnn.com/2013/10/22/us/missing-children-fast-facts/
and
http://wcfcourier.com/news/evansdale_search/statistics-on-missing-children-daunting/article_22ac5beb-378a-5bc6-b662-124e042c51a6.html
I wonder if it is the "friends" who your parents distrust... Maybe bringing them home might not be the best idea, if in fact they are ....hmmmm...not the kind of kids a parent wants their daughter running with. Drugs? Sex? Alcohol? Swayed by peers? Idiots?
That link Writeacher posted, is of one of our Girl Scouts. And, she has never been heard of again.
And yet she was only 30 feet from home.
If you want to persuade your parents to let you go places alone with just your friends, it is important to understand their concerns and address them in a respectful manner. Here are some steps you can take to make a persuasive argument:
1. Understand their perspective: Put yourself in your parents' shoes and think about why they might be hesitant to grant permission. Common concerns may include your safety, maturity level, or the potential for risky behavior.
2. Communicate responsibly: Engage in an open and honest conversation with your parents. Show them that you can communicate your thoughts and ideas maturely. Be calm, respectful, and ready to listen to their concerns.
3. Demonstrate responsibility: Show your parents that you are responsible and capable of making good decisions. This can include consistently completing your chores, maintaining good grades, and following household rules.
4. Plan ahead: Outline the details of your proposed outing with your friends, including where you plan to go, who will be there, how you will get there, and how long you will stay. This shows your parents that you have thought through the logistics and are being responsible in your planning.
5. Suggest compromises: If your parents are still hesitant, suggest compromises that address their concerns. For example, you could propose checking in with them at specific times, having an adult chaperone for part of the outing, or offering to stay in touch via phone or text.
6. Offer reassurance: Assure your parents that you understand the importance of safety and that you will make responsible choices while you are out. Share examples of times when you have acted responsibly in the past to reinforce your commitment to making good decisions.
Remember, every parent is different, so approach the conversation with empathy and respect. If your parents are still not convinced, it may be helpful to have a discussion about their specific concerns and find alternative ways to spend time with your friends that they find more acceptable.