Could you give me links to sites, that have compliments. I don't always want to say to people, wow, you've done such a nice job! I want to say something more sophisticated, please give me links to sites. Thanks.

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There are lots of sites here -- especially the first 3.

The most important message you can give is honesty. When you say a compliment, mean it. Often folks give out words they think are compliments, but not meaning them.

Ritual compliments, as in ritual prayer, wont get you very far in life.

I think it's helpful to say something specific. For example, one of my kindergarten students was coloring yesterday. Her picture had different shades of colors in it that was not easy to do so smoothly. I didn't just say, "Good job." I said, "I love the different shades of purple you used."

Certainly! Here are a few websites where you can find a variety of compliments to use:

1. Compliment Generator (https://www.complimentgenerator.co.uk/): This website generates random compliments based on different categories. Simply click on the "Generate Compliment" button to get a new one.

2. Compliments.co (https://compliments.co/): This site provides a collection of compliments across various categories. You can browse through different sections to find the perfect compliment for any occasion.

3. LoveToKnow (https://socialnetworking.lovetoknow.com/10_Compliments_to_Give_Someone_Not_Just_for_Material_Things): LoveToKnow provides a list of meaningful compliments that go beyond material things. This can help you express appreciation in a more profound way.

Remember, it's always more meaningful to give compliments that are sincere and specific to the person or their accomplishment. These websites can serve as inspiration, but it's often best to tailor your compliments to fit the individual and the situation.