can someone help me find websites about how ben franklin's bad aspects like his affairs and such.

This article also suggestions that besides being a "babe magnet", Franklin had a really sharp humor, and was not a humble person, although he recognized the value of humility.

http://www.halexandria.org/dward766.htm

Here is another site with his advice to a friend about having "affairs".

http://www.constitution.org/primarysources/mistress.html

We know that he had a son out of wedlock prior to his marriage, and we also know that he had affairs after his wife's death. Here is a brief bio.
http://www.ushistory.org/franklin/info/index.htm

are there any other bad qualities he had other than affairs

Check the first site I gave you, it is suggested that he was not particulary humble, and that he had a very sharp, maybe cutting sense of humor.

i know but is there any other aspects that were bad that he had about politics or if he was racist

He would not have been considered "racist" in his day. That was not a term that would have been used.

Read the brief bio... for his general views.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Benjamin_Franklin#Virtue.2C_religion_and_personal_beliefs

Check these sites:

http://iplosion.wordpress.com/2006/09/13/benjamin-franklin-and-colonial-american-race-relations/

http://goliath.ecnext.com/coms2/gi_0199-3695144/Benjamin-Franklin-s-evolving-views.html

Here's something interesting about Ben Franklin that you might not find. Cauliflower gave him gout!

Sra