How do I know when to use lay or lie?

Thank you for using the Jiskha Homework Help Forum. Many people use them interchangeably and perhaps some day that will be the norm. As far as English grammar books are concerned:

Lay means "to place something down." It is something you do to something else. It is a transitive verb.

Incorrect: Lie the book on the table.

Correct: Lay the book on the table.
(It is being done to something else.)

Lie means "to recline" or "be placed." It does not act on anything or anyone else. It is an intransitive verb.

Incorrect: Lay down on the couch.

Correct: Lie down on the couch.
(It is not being done to anything else.)

The reason lay and lie are confusing is their past tenses.

The past tense of lay is laid.

The past tense of lie is lay.

To determine whether to use the words "lay" or "lie," you need to understand the difference between them and their grammatical functions.

- "Lay" is a transitive verb, which means it requires an object to act upon. When you use "lay," you are placing or putting something down. For example, you can say, "I lay the book on the table." Here, "the book" is the object that is being laid down.

- "Lie" is an intransitive verb, which means it does not require an object. When you use "lie," you are referring to the subject reclining or resting in a horizontal position. For example, you can say, "I lie down on the couch." Here, there is no direct object being laid down.

The confusion often arises when it comes to the past tenses of these verbs:

- The past tense of "lay" is "laid." For example, "Yesterday, I laid the book on the table."

- The past tense of "lie" is also "lay." For example, "Yesterday, I lay on the couch for a while."

Remember that "lay" requires an object, while "lie" does not. So, when you are deciding which word to use, consider whether you are placing or putting something down (lay) or if you are talking about reclining or resting in a horizontal position (lie).