Can anyone help me get some points?
What can the Church do today to make itself more relevant to Generation X?
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Generation_X
Well, the don't believe in God as much, they live together before marriage, they have little sense of family ties, they have their own music, and they most definitely believe in birth control measures.
These things are not what the Church advocates, usually. As they see it, the church is an old social institution, like the Freemasons, or the VFW.
How does the Church make itself more revelant? The Church has to change its image, and get a reality check on birth control, and divorce. To deny things that are in widespread existence is not going to appeal to the Generation X.