i have free speech.my topic is have ever done anything that you wish you hadn't done?what happened and how the situation might have been different if you had acted or thought differently.
really i don't know,how can i speak because i don't know about this.can you help me,can you give me a example.
Your school subject is not college.
I've done several things in my life that I wish I hadn't done.
I feel guiltiest about pulling a chair out from under my best friend when I was 12 years old. The problem is that she was in a body cast from her hips to her shoulders. Fortunately, she wasn't injured, but I've spent over 60 years feeling guilty about that stupid and unthinking act.
The prompt is asking you to think of any decision that you later regretted, and wished you could have changed. Then propose what would have happened had you made the better choice.
To answer, look at your personal choices. You should try exaggerating a real experience. If you cannot find anything of relevance, just make something up. The analysis is more important than the event itself
I don't believe that you need to make something up. We all have done something we have regretted. However, because of our feelings of guilt, we often do not have the courage to examine our behavior. Even if we can examine the behavior ourselves, we may not want to share it with others, for fear of being rejected or judged.
You can consider a sin of commission (something you did) or a sin of omission (something you failed to do).
I hope you can muster the courage to face your actions (or lack of them). Examining your actions out in the open typically reduces their emotional impact.
I hope this helps a little more. Thanks for asking.
Of course, I can provide you with an example to help you understand how to approach your topic. Let's suppose your topic is "Have you ever done anything that you wish you hadn't done?" and you want to discuss an example related to a disagreement with a friend.
To start, think about a specific situation where you had a disagreement with a friend and reflect on what happened. Consider how the situation might have been different if you had acted or thought differently. Here's an example of how to structure your response.
Example:
Situation: Several months ago, my friend and I had a disagreement about a group project we were working on for school. We had different ideas on how to approach the project, which led to tension and arguments.
Actions: Instead of taking the time to calmly listen to my friend's perspective and find a compromise, I became defensive and insisted on my own ideas. This led to increased tension, and we struggled to work together effectively.
Consequences: Due to our inability to resolve the disagreement, our project suffered. It lacked cohesion, and we weren't able to fully utilize each other's strengths. Additionally, our friendship was strained because we didn't communicate effectively or consider each other's viewpoints.
Reflection: Looking back, I realize that if I had approached the situation differently, the outcome might have been more positive. By being open-minded and willing to listen to my friend's ideas, we could have found a compromise that incorporated the best aspects of both approaches. This would have greatly improved our project and strengthened our friendship.
In this example, by reflecting on the situation, acknowledging your mistakes, and considering alternative actions, you can explore how things might have been different if you had acted or thought differently. This approach allows you to analyze the consequences of your actions and learn from them, promoting personal growth and improved decision-making in the future.