posted by Bryan .
My question is, how do people who are not so attractive get in relationships? What about those people who aren't attractive but seem to have several suitors or potential mates?
That's a good pair of questions. What you should explore is what qualities various people seem to find attractive.
Does it always have to be physical?
Does it always have to be character?
P.S. You might like some ideas in the following GOOGLE Search:
Personally, I look for a good listener, one who has a nice smile, one who makes me smile, is kind and thoughtful! It helps if other people have the same interests/hobbies as you.